Doa untuk seorang teman

Semoga kejadian ini tidak membuatmu gentar,
Semoga kejadian ini ada hikmahnya bagi kita semua,
Semoga kejadian ini semakin meningkatkan skill dan keilmuanmu.

Semoga kamu tetap tenang,
Semoga kamu tetap fokus dan konsentrasi,
Semoga kamu tidak terpengaruh oleh semua cerita dan tuduhan yang beredar,
Semoga Allah SWT senantiasa melindungimu, amin.

What doesn't kill you, will make you stronger,,, ☺
Semangat yaaaaaa,,,

Share the laugh

I received a dvd today, "3 idiots". It's a great Indian movie, funny & meaningfull. Especially when you received it from a special friend, with note " I wanted to share the laugh with you".

Sari,,,thanx a bunch yah,,, I had a great laugh today when I watched the movie,,,hahaha,,, ☺ Miss u buuu,,,

Memasak Sop

Menurut gw sop adalah masakan standar yang harus dikuasai. Sop yang berisi kentang, wortel, sayur, biasanya ditambahkan dengan bakso, sosis, atau ayam. Kebayang kan, kalau lagi flu, makan sop yang hangat dan bergizi pasti terasa enak. So I decided to give it a try yesterday.

And I failed,,,,hehehehe,,,, Bumbunya sih bener, tapi kekurangannya adalah, bumbunya ngga ditumis dulu sebelum dimasukin. And my teacher on this is my housemate, Yuni,,,, She was laughing all the way and forced me to watch and learn while she fixed it,,,

Well, though I haven't prove that I can cook soup, at least now I know how to cook it,,, ☺

Refreshing - I did it my way!

Ok, I admit that this is weird, totally weird. I'm a weirdo anyway,,, :D

I'd like to share that for me, refreshing in Cepu is not easy to do. There's no mall, hang out places, bookstore. Some of my friends are doing sport in their spare time, like football, badminton or volley. Well, sport had never been my hobby, so I've never joined them. After few months here, and living in a house, I've finally figured out what I really love to do in my spare time.

It is washing the dishes. Yes, it's weird. I've told you I'm a weirdo before. I found that washing the dishes can clear my crowded mind. It calmed me down and straighten my mind. After a hectic week, staying at home on weekend is my heaven on earth. Although I still have to do my laundry, cleaning up the house, sometimes cooking, and of course,,washing the dishes. But I feel the excitement, the happiness while doing it.

Maybe I should re-evaluate my life. If being a housewive or full time mom can make me a happier and better person, why not? ☺

Hidup dengan orang lain

Waktu gw memutuskan ngontrak rumah ama Yuni, gw blum begitu kenal ama dia. Hasil penilaian sekilas, dia nampaknya cukup baik, kooperatif dan ga rese. That's enough.

Bagaimanapun tetep aja ada penyesuaian. Apalagi jika 2 cewe moody tinggal serumah,,, :D Toleransi, mau mengalah, mau mendengarkan, saling membantu itu perlu. Contoh simpel, Yuni udah masak ma cuci piring, at least gw beberes rumah.

Saat mood kami sedang jelek, kami memilih untuk berdiam di kamar masing-masing, tidak saling mengganggu. Tapi itu jarang bangeeet,,,, Seringnya haha hihi aja, bertukar cerita dan gosip kantor. Pernah juga gara2 fire truck, hampir ngambek2an. Tapi ga lama siiiy bete2annya,,,

Paling seru saat kami harus berkompromi. Yang 1 maunya A, yang laen mau B. Ada kalanya salah 1 mengalah, tapi ga jarang juga akhirnya ga ada yang dipilih,,,,hehehe,,, Kami kan wanita2 tak berpendirian,,,hihihihi,,,

Well, ini baru cerita housemate, kalo udah nikah, bisa lebih seru lagi critanya,,, :) Tapi, menurut gw, mungkin Allah SWT ingin gw belajar toleransi dulu sebelum gw menikah. Whatever it is, it's worth to learn,,, ☺.

Berani Karena (merasa) Benar

Saat awal gw pindah ke Cepu, ada suatu kontrak pekerjaan yang akan mulai berjalan. Gw ga ikutin proses lelangnya, gw tinggal awasin pelaksanaannya. Si vendor nampak meyakinkan kalo liat cara ngomongnya. Semua sudah disiapkan, katanya. Tapi entah kenapa feeling gw bilang, harus hati-hati. Gw simpan semua dokumen dan gw pastikan semua sesuai prosedur. Semua orang bilang gw berlebihan, terlalu kenceng ngawasinnya. Emang gw pikirin? Kalo ada apa2 toh bukan mreka yang kena.

Kata hati emang suka bener. Sampai jatuh tempo, dan dikasi tambahan waktu 50 hari pun, ngga kelar juga tuh kerjaan. Pada saat jatuh tempo terakhir, si vendor memohon dikasih tambahan waktu lagi. Tentu saja ga dikasih. Gw keukeuh kembali ke prosedur, prosedur, prosedur.

Hari ini sempat terjadi kehebohan gara2 vendor itu lagi2 minta tambah waktu. Ada aja trik dan alasannya. Berbeda2 yang dia sampaikan pada Bapak A, Bapak B, Bapak C dan gw. Alhamdulillah, smuanya bisa kita tolak karena data dan dokumentasi yang lengkap. Sekali lagi, karena disesuaikan dengan prosedur, prosedur, prosedur.

Banyak yang bilang si vendor ini kenal baik dengan bos2 gede. Well,,,whatever,,, Gw sih ga kenal, jadi sebodo teuing,hahaha,,, Gw ga sok suci, atau sok bersih, atau sok bener. Gw cuma menjalankan prosedur, serta memastikan ''perusahaan tercinta'' ini tidak rugi dan comply to regulation. That's all.

Buat si vendor bandel,,,ke laut ajaaaaa,,, You must not know 'bout me. You thought I was just another newbee, but this newbee is different.

Valentine's Day

I always ♡ Valentine's Day,,,really,,,
All the love songs that played over & over again, comrom movies that I've never got bored to watch, and the red or pink colour that paint all over the world,,, such a festive moment,,,
But this valentine's day is kinda sucks,,, dunno exactly why,,,
Maybe because I can't celebrate it here, I can't meet my besties in Jakarta, my brother, my parents, and I don't have any boyfriend to share it with.
So anyway,,, I invite a friend to come over & I'll cook spaghetti, for celebration,,,*maksa abiiiis*
This Valentine's Day also got me wanna write about my love life, something that some of my friends. & relatives had frequently asked.
They said, "what r u waiting for?u have a great job, u're almost 30. Just pick someone & get married." In a shorter line, they thought that I'm too picky. Well, helloooo,,, it's about a lifetime commitment. It's my right to be picky, it's my right to take my time.
I don't want a prince charming or a knight in shining armors. I want a real thing. Someone that I can share my life, my dreams, my hopes and even my fears. Someone that I can depend on, considering I'll put my whole life and heart in his hands. Someone that's humble enough when he's succeed, but strong enough to get up on his feet again each time he falls down. See,,,how can I measure those qualification in a man? ☺
It will be a lot easier if the qualification can be quantified. Something like,,,'I want a man with income more than 100mio in a year' or 'A man whose assets are worth more than 500mio' or 'A man with IQ not less than 150'. But it's impossible to do so. Chemistry can't be quantified. Manner, religion, vision, persistency, and other qualification that I want in a man, can't be quantified. A colleague blame my jobs, I was a credit reviewer in a bank, and now one of my job desc is a risk analyst. So he thought that I'm over-analyst in picking a man....:D Well...it could be... But it's better to do so rather than being clumsy and irresponsible, to pick any man to be my husband, the father of my children. Heyy,,,I want my children to be smart, cute, great and everything also.
Of course I've fallen in love with some guys, for a moment, for a season. Some are great guys, some other are not so great,hahaha,,,, Do u remember the economy law about supply vs demand? Well,,,so far supply doesn't meet demand. Not only from my side, but from theirs also. The guys I like don't like me back while the guys who like me,,,I just don't like them back,,, It's complicated, I know.
All I want for this Valentine's Day is....to fall in love. To jump and fall deeply madly in love with a qualified man...amiiin...